"I was originally looking for a different site, but was intrigued by your memorial. There will always be a hole in your heart for her. Such a sudden loss! I have children of my own, and the loss of any of them would be unthinkable...whenever they leave, I say, "Be careful...call me when you get there," etc. Like a mantra, shaking the sticks, saying the ritual words that will somehow keep them safe, when you know that you must leave them with the wish, hope and prayer of safety. I heard somewhere that children are the arrows we send out to places we will never see. But you will see her again, and she is with you even now, and always. I wish you peace. Jill "