I, too came upon this site by accident...but I leave it so very touched. On September 10th, 2001, I lost my boyfriend of 2 1/2 years in a car accident. He would have been 17 a month later. Though I felt ((and still feel)) indescribable pain, I can't imagine what you must feel. Losing a child must be the worst pain imaginable. Losing my Brian has been the hardest thing I've ever dealt with, and I can definitely empathize with you there. I'm sorry I didn't get the chance to know your Missy personally, but it's very evident that she was and is very loved by many many people. I'm sure she's in a much better place right now, smiling down on you every day. Be comforted to know that the Lord is taking care of her! Maybe she and Brian are friends up there, who knows? Thank you for sharing Missy with everyone. God Bless. In Him, Lauren